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My roommate made a cleaning chart thing last semester and said she shared it with me and keeps getting mad at me for not cleaning (i clean every weekend) and Ive told her multiple times that I never got her stupid cleaning chart
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Anonymous 5w

Giving her the benefit of the doubt, have you evaluated if your version of clean matches her version of clean? Clearly in her eyes, what you were/are doing was not sufficient to the point she felt she needed to make a chart.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

She made the chart before the first weekend we had in the dorm. Neither of us had cleaned at that point. She just made the chart to make a chart. I genuinely have no idea what I could do differently to make it more clean… Ive also been the one that has cleaned for like the past three weeks…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I totally get what your saying though

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I definitely think a bigger conversation needs to be had between you guys. If she wants a chart to help her feel on track or less stressed, respect that but also she needs to make sure she isn’t asking unreasonable things from you and make sure you actually HAVE access to her chart. I definitely get why you could be annoyed

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