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AITA if i wanted to get a vibrator but my roommate,who i share a room with, has said they are uncomfortable with sex toys in the space? I’m single while she has a boyfriend and she has asked me to leave the room to have sex with him. I’m alone on weekends
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Anonymous 3w

i mean why does she need to know? just hide it and use it when's she's not home, it's really not her business

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Anonymous 3w

get the vibrator girl😂

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Anonymous 3w

NTA at all she has no right to tell you what you can do in your personal life. just don’t use it with her in the room obviously but ur doing nothing wrong

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Anonymous 3w

then tell her that u dont want her walking sex toy coming by anymore

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Anonymous 3w

Dude buy the fucking vibrator and if she finds out then smack her with it. If you’re an adult it’s not her business lmfao

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Anonymous 3w

i think if it’s in your drawer and she never sees it you should be allowed to relieve yourself. it’s a normal human thing. i would understand not wanting it to be out and seen but i don’t rlly think it’s her business what you don’t show her yk

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Anonymous 3w

You don’t need permission to buy something

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Anonymous 3w

Just don’t leave it out in the open and use it when she’s not in the room and don’t tell her about it she doesn’t need to know it’s quite literally none of her business and weird of her to just ban sex toys all together

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Anonymous 3w

girl gettttt that vibrator asap

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah just throw it in your sock drawer

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Anonymous 3w

byeeee get the vibrator and use it when she is not there. Thats unbelievable on her part. The only thing thats uncomfortable abt this is her asking u to leave to have sex. Gross af and ur roommate is controlling. Absolutely get urself that vibrator

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Anonymous 3w

Tell her if you can’t have sex toys then she can’t have sex in the room cause that makes you uncomfortable

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Anonymous 3w

nah get the vibe just don’t tell her abt it. it’s ur place too

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Anonymous 3w

unless you are leaving the vibe out, you are allowed to have whatever your want in your space

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Anonymous 3w

NTA

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Anonymous 3w

If you don’t get it I’m getting it for you

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Anonymous 3w

I think it's more anxiety of you using something with her there. I'd say get one but don't be weird. Trust I worked as an RA and people do do that shit with their roommates in the room

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Anonymous 3w

girl if you dont start electrocuting that puh

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Anonymous 3w

there's no reason she should have a problem w this at all. the only time i could see having an issue is if you left it out in the open (which im willing to bet money you wouldn't). get it, don't tell her, and if she says she knows u have one that means she snooped

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Anonymous 3w

Her bf’s dick is a sex toy, so…

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Anonymous 3w

Man to hell with her and her requests she can have sex but you cant have a sex toy? Yea ight

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Anonymous 3w

You aren’t the asshole at all 💀 it’s not her business as long as you don’t leave it out

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Anonymous 3w

On god fuck that bitch LMAOOO

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Anonymous 3w

Not the asshole tell her ur uncomfortable knowing she has sex in a bed in the room you sleep in

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Anonymous 3w

Girl get it and don’t tell her lmaooo

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Anonymous 3w

Maybe you should get a boyfriend idk tho…

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

TRUEEE

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 3w

Can even say premarital sex makes you uncomfortable and you don’t like how she’s doing it, even if it’s not in the room

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 3w

i call this malicious compliance. it works, but it can come at a cost lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 3w

or has cameras in the room..

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 3w

shut up

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 1w

Weird take

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