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This guy wanted to be friends and kept saying a few not ok things towards me, I’ve been trying to be respectful and I told him straight up “I have a boyfriend, nothing more than friends” and he respected it- until today Trans script is a lil wonky
27 upvotes, 14 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in AITA. "This guy wanted to be friends and kept saying a few not ok things towards me, I’ve been trying to be respectful and I told him straight up “I have a boyfriend, nothing more than friends” and he respected it- until today Trans script is a lil wonky"
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Anonymous 1d

I’m certain you were clear and transparent before that and he’s enjoying trying to step over the line and push your boundaries

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Anonymous 1d

As a man, you are not only NTA, but also a great person. More women need to feel safe being direct and clear like this. Thank you!

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Anonymous 1d

I’d just quit talking to him

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Anonymous 19h

NTA but unless you already had an established platonic friendship with another guy before getting a BF, why would you even agree to be friends with a guy and give away your number?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

He hasn’t responded since then so I think this time he got the message

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

1.) I can be friends with whatever gender and so can my bf 2.) it’s some guy who randomly found me on facebook and messaged me- I’m always down to make new friends so I accepted it and chatted with him. I made it clear I was taken and looking for nothing more than that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

You had me till “randomly found me on facebook” 🥴

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Trying to be friends with a random guy from facebook is like taking a sip out of a bottle you found on the sidewalk. Babes, wtf?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

Girl I’m barely on facebook, idfk what’s going on there half the time If I knew he was gonna be like that I wouldn’t have accepted it You genuinely never know how a person is unless you chat with them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

He randoed you on fb!! You know exactly what kind of guy he is from that alone. Please don’t be this naive

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

It’s like saying not to accept a friend request from snap 😭 if I did that I literally wouldn’t have most of my closest friends My best friend of 6 years was some rando

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10h

he's likely not even real. facebook isn't like snap in the "adding randos by location or whatever" way. if he isn't a friend of friend, he's probably an ai bot. they specifically design them to try to get people in relationships with them, and then reveal personal financial information. I've seen it a ton of times with my older friends on facebook, and I've never seen anyone randomly add people on fb who was real.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6h

Wow I didn’t even know that He has an extensive facebook with posts dating way back, had a linktree with a TikTok and instagram so I thought it was an actual person and stuff

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