yea don’t tell her she’s stupid that’s the kind of thing you vent about to others but you also don’t need to coddle her. maybe just support in the very real dilemma she’s in now of being pregnant by this guy

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It was stupid, but she almost certainly realizes it now, after getting hit with the reality check that is pregnancy. And telling her it was stupid won’t improve the situation for anyone. Even if she brought it on herself, she needs grace and support rather than criticism.

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i truly think it depends on how you value her as a friend. if shes ur best friend and u wanna support her through this then yeah that was not the way to do that. shes already pregnant, does she need you to TELL her that shes stupid? if you want to continue being friends with her id help her through it

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She’s dumb.

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I think she needs your support right now more than she needs to hear that she was dumb.

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To everyone commenting, she started this relationship as the other woman. I offered to move into a rent house with her and her mom and split rent 3 ways so that should wouldn’t have to stay in that situation. She refused and said he was a good man. Now she’s crying to me that she didn’t see this coming. I told her after he cheated the 2nd time to not sleep with him until he got tested and that if she wanted to stay, I would support it, but that I don’t really agree. Key info I didn’t share!

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Tell her to get an abortion and move on it’s not that hard

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