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AITA 4w
not really an AITA but my best friend since kindergarten won’t let me follow her boyfriend on any social medias and they have been dating for over a year. I don’t know if i did something or if he is really just this “private” guy she says that he is
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Anonymous 4w

Personally I feel like one of the most important things about dating is that your partner and your friends get along. She’s kinda weird for that tbh

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Anonymous 3w

Why do you need to follow him anyways? I’ve never cared that much to follow any of my friend’s bf’s online.

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Anonymous 4w

Why does it matter, I don’t follow my besties man’s socials?

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Anonymous 4w

idk did she say why

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Anonymous 4w

Why you want to follow him?

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Anonymous 3w

She seems really weird but at the same time I’ve never gone out of my way to follow my friends bfs on Instagram like it’s not that deep and this isn’t something I would lose sleep over or start issues over if it’s not actually affecting you haha

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Anonymous 4w

Honestly, she sounds like a really toxic person and that relationship is NOT gonna last with that level of possessiveness. With that being said, if you want to be her friend I would recommend not following her bf.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

i just thinks it’s weird that he’s a huge part of her life but she doesn’t want her closest friends follow him. i have also always followed my friends significant others so it’s just strange to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

It’s not for example I’m your besties bf. I’m extremely private, I have socials that haven’t been updated in years. All of my boyfriend’s friends followed me, and I accepted and followed back but they saw I haven’t posted since 2021. I am that private, it shouldn’t be that big a deal.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

she had tagged him in something when i followed him so she said he was overwhelmed with all of the follows and a private person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

lol idk...

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

If he’s so private, why is she posting things with him in it and tagging him? Sounds like she’s the one causing problems here. Also, if he actually feels that way he can just deny your follow request and explain himself

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