She’s just being an asshole - sorry you’re going through that

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Get a new friend 😟😟

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I came here because people are brutally honest in this group, and I need advice. I know it was a bad time, but she is ranting about her life every time we talk. So do I wait until it’s definitive diagnosis? Do I ask to have a conversation about it specifically (plan a dinner with the assumption that’s all we’d talk about)? How long should I wait to bring it up again? I’m not sure the best approach, it’s something I really need to discuss with someone so I need advice

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as someone also having genetic testing for cancer and is currently going through a break up, health comes first, and you deserve people who support you instead of thinking about themselves

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She definitely doesn’t care about you and sees you more as an outlet or a tool vs an actual friend

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No but your “friend” is

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This sounds bad on her part with no other context. If you’re really friends, make a point to ask if it’s a good time to bring up something important about you. If she says she’s not done talking about her breakup or whatever, then wait until she finishes or there’s a pause in the conversation

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