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I want to end things with a guy because he was horny at the wrong time. I go through cycles where intimacy disgusts me and I avoid it. Last night the guy texted me about a filthy dream he had about me. I wasn't in the mood so I said so. He kept going-
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Anonymous 1w

hell no if he doesnt listen the first time u say something like that set him free

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Anonymous 2w

It took a few texts of myself awkwardly trying to say no. I was really high so texting was a bit hard. He finally stopped when I flat out asked to change the topic. My friends suggested that we discuss boundaries but the whole thing just made me feel gross. He apologized today and said that he was just in a mood and should've thought about my feelings. While I appreciate him wanting to do better, it still happened and I still feel gross that saying I wasn't into it wasn't enough for him to stop

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Anonymous 1w

I think you should end it. But also for the future communicating what ya said about said cycles could be helpful

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