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AITA 11w
If I text my bf that I’ve had an awful day and I’m so exhausted and he then decides that it’s the perfect night to discuss the issues in our relationship AITA for telling him I wouldn’t be able to participate in a productive convo
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Anonymous 11w

NTAH

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Anonymous 11w

Absolutely not

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Anonymous 11w

Not if you work with him to plan a time in the near future to have that convo

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Anonymous 11w

no, your response from having an awful day might just make the conversation worse. you two should have the convo when you’re calm and collected

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Anonymous 11w

NTAH

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Anonymous 11w

No, a good partner respects your need for recovery and space to be in a good spot mentally if you aren't in a good spot a conversation might just make things worse

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Anonymous 11w

NTA

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Anonymous 11w

you need to be single

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Anonymous 11w

No… unless this is a recurring thing, in which case yes

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Anonymous 11w

yes

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Anonymous 11w
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Anonymous 11w

That seems like a perfect response in this case

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Anonymous 11w

Why do yall even have issues? Some of yall are so pretentious about having “issues with your partners” to feel intellectual and mature. Just be with someone else

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Anonymous 11w

you not being able to discuss important things after having a bad day is probably something to work on no hate

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

This isn’t enough context to say this. Reddit ass comment yelling divorce for every possible relationship issue

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11w

(in response to comment 12)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11w

Say it to my face, bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11w

You know yall are some hot messes in hot mess relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 11w

lmao i tried replying to your comment but it didn’t work. this is me saying it to your face 😁

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 11w

No relationship is ever going to be perfect and if you think it will be, then you have never been in a relationship and have a shit outlook on how they will be and it’s goin to suck when you get in one

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