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If I text my bf that I’ve had an awful day and I’m so exhausted and he then decides that it’s the perfect night to discuss the issues in our relationship AITA for telling him I wouldn’t be able to participate in a productive convo
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Anonymous 1d

NTAH

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Anonymous 1d

Absolutely not

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Anonymous 19h

Not if you work with him to plan a time in the near future to have that convo

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Anonymous 19h

no, your response from having an awful day might just make the conversation worse. you two should have the convo when you’re calm and collected

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Anonymous 20h

NTAH

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Anonymous 18h

No, a good partner respects your need for recovery and space to be in a good spot mentally if you aren't in a good spot a conversation might just make things worse

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Anonymous 19h

NTA

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Anonymous 22h

you need to be single

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Anonymous 17h
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Anonymous 12h

That seems like a perfect response in this case

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Anonymous 1h

yes

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Anonymous 17h

Why do yall even have issues? Some of yall are so pretentious about having “issues with your partners” to feel intellectual and mature. Just be with someone else

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Anonymous 18h

Better to do it on an already awful day than ruin a good day

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Anonymous 19h

you not being able to discuss important things after having a bad day is probably something to work on no hate

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

This isn’t enough context to say this. Reddit ass comment yelling divorce for every possible relationship issue

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17h

(in response to comment 12)

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17h

Say it to my face, bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17h

You know yall are some hot messes in hot mess relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 17h

lmao i tried replying to your comment but it didn’t work. this is me saying it to your face 😁

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10h

No relationship is ever going to be perfect and if you think it will be, then you have never been in a relationship and have a shit outlook on how they will be and it’s goin to suck when you get in one

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