AITA on Sidechat | i got 🍇ed and confided in a friend about it. he checked in on me, which i appreciated, but then goes "you did it to yourself by always joking abt getting a guy at the bars." ive asked him to not joke abt things like this before. aita for cutting him off?

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AITA 20w

i got 🍇ed and confided in a friend about it. he checked in on me, which i appreciated, but then goes "you did it to yourself by always joking abt getting a guy at the bars." ive asked him to not joke abt things like this before. aita for cutting him off?

Anonymous 20w

No. Very bad and insensitive joke, I get why you cut him off. That being said, it could be a genuine mistake, but you know him far better than I do.

Anonymous 20w

Not at all. That is a weird fucking thing to say, especially from a man. He should be absolutely ashamed of himself. I’m so sorry this happened to you

Anonymous 20w

WHY would you even consider the possibility that you might be the asshole??? that man is a piece of shit and deserves to have his teeth kicked in

Anonymous 20w

Ik it sounds harsh and he shouldn’t have joked about it the way he did, but putting yourself in risky situations often results in risky outcomes

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Anonymous

#3 20w

idk who downvoted this but you deserve to have you teeth kicked in too

Anonymous

#3 20w

Anonymous

#4 20w

to clarify i did not meet this guy at the bar, i was asleep at a friend and he got on me

Anonymous

#3 20w

HAHA ily ty icon

Anonymous

#2 20w

thank you :)

Anonymous

OP 20w

ofc queennn

Anonymous

#4 20w

ew wtf is your problem she should feel comfortable to go to a space without the fear of being fucking assaulted

Anonymous

OP 20w

Well then that makes his joke even more crazy. Thanks for the clarification

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Anonymous

#4 20w

there doesnt need to be “clarification” in context of 🍇. No means no it doesn’t matter the situation or context. consent is revokable at all times. dont be a fucking creep