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AITA 4w
So my husband is on deployment. We have a kid and he hasn’t sent me money to pay for gas or food and I’m paying all of mine and my kids bills. He is blowing through paychecks. Is this a valid reason for a divorce? I’m feeling so alone but I love him a lot
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Anonymous 4w

**yes I’ve talked to him and told him how I feel. He just shrugged it off and hasn’t said anything other than sorry and he wishes he was home.

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Anonymous 4w

Yes. He is not supporting or pitching in financially, he’s a bum—in essence.

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Anonymous 4w

don’t they get paid extra for being married too and are supposed to send that money to u to help support??? my friends husband is also in the military and them getting married bumped up his pay and he has to send her monthly checks cause that’s the whole reason for the bump

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah that’s a problem. He needs to put in money because what is he spending his money on during deployment? Housing is covered, food is covered, that’s honestly really weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yeah, it’s bah, but it’s supposed to be for rent and that’s what we use it for.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

ohhhh ok i misunderstood but still he should be supporting you otherwise those are his kids too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

kid**

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