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This is kinda messed up but AITA for wanting my mom to grieve the death of my stepdad? My stepdad dad died the first week of February and not even two weeks later my mom(40) started online dating. (Pt1)
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Anonymous 1w

NTA. She’s not required to grieve but she should be more discreet about her dating life especially since this loss is so fresh for you and your sister. With the third man if you say you’re uncomfortable with him being there she needs to listen to u, no questions asked

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Anonymous 1w

(Pt2) in the problem I have is that she immediately started telling me (21) and my sister(15) that she was having s3x with these two different men and they have never came to our house nor have we met them well tonight has sent me over the edge because she is having a third guy come to our house to have s3x.

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Anonymous 1w

Nta, but also everyone grieves differently. Also it could be that their relationship (sexual or general) wasn’t that great near the end and she had already started moving on in her head sort of thing. I know you probs don’t want to think about it like that but you never know what’s going on in people’s relationships, especially the bedroom

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

(Pt3) I confronted my mom about the situation and told her that it has made me uncomfortable several times and I compared it to whenever she lost her father (my grandfather) and she said it wasn’t the same because he was my stepdad. she also gaslit me and my sister multiple times saying that it’s her time to live alive because she had me at 19 and she just wants to put herself & her cat first So AITA?

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