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When I was little I was taught not to say anything if I didn’t have something nice to say. And I think I lot of people could learn from that sentiment
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Anonymous 4w

Facts

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Anonymous 4w

Oh I disagree completely. It has turned me into a people pleaser. Recently my boss said you need to push back and I say what I want when I want and nobody fucks with me anymore. Sometimes you have to say the not nice stuff like “your fucking stupid”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I think a better way to word it would be “if you don’t have anything constructive to say don’t say anything at all” cause you’re right, sometimes you gotta tell someone what they’re doing is stupid. but it doesn’t help anyone but yourself to leave it at that. tell them why they’re being stupid and how to stop

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I agree but people have taken this too far. Like they will just say nasty shit and be like oh sorry I’m just not a people pleaser like shut the fuck up😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I’m not saying be a push over but I feel like people got used to saying what they want behind a screen and now they are saying it in person. Like seeing people comment stuff about appearances of random people they don’t know is crazy

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