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AITA 4w

AITA if I ban my friend from my apartment bc they told em they like me? I’m 21F (senior year) and they’re 17M (freshman year). We have mutual friends but idk I feel weird about that and don’t want weird accusations or people to get mad at me.

Anonymous 4w

I think that’s probably a good call but maybe see if you can try to get him access to another kitchen first but this is the responsible thing to do

Anonymous 4w

He also just uses my apartment kitchen a lot because he doesn’t have a kitchen and I feel bad banning him from using the only available kitchen but at the same time just given the situation I don’t really want him there

Anonymous 4w

TALK TO HIM. just talk to him. Please bring it up and talk to him

Anonymous

#1 4w

Yeah, I’m hoping I can at least just like do that until break and by the time we’re back from break maybe he won’t feel that way anymore. I’m also going to get another friend to ask what his icks are and just become them. I don’t know if that makes sense, I told my friend this plan and she said it seems like an autism plan so 😅😅

Anonymous

OP 4w

I’m gonna try to get some of our other friends to hang out with him more as well because I’m worried about him just being alone in his dorm because he’s had some depressive issues

Anonymous

#2 4w

I lost my girl best friend this way and we had the same age diff. He’s young and he don’t know so just talk to him. Make shit awkward now it’s gonna be worse long run. Just don’t make the same mistake I did

Anonymous

#2 4w

I have talked to him, but it’s just kind of making me see all the time he’s low-key crossed boundaries. Like wanting to lay in bed with me when I was drunk and couldn’t really make decisions (he was just supposed to walk my dog while I was at a party and he just stayed there), wanting to buy/make me food/take me to restaurants when I don’t want all this food, wanting to cuddle (I just also hate being touched in general), wanting to buy stuff for my apartment.