NTA! His body, his choice. Your body, your choice.

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my sister has been dealing with this for years and lemme just say get out now! you won’t ever change how you feel on it and if he wanted to stop for you, he would’ve already. not the asshole but you know what your boundaries are and if that is a deal breaker for you, i’d leave now before it’s been years and you have kids cause my sister is stuck and can’t leave and is miserable. wishing you the best of luck

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not the asshole! like others have said if he wanted to change for you he would’ve. and also the lying and hiding it is a massive red flag, if he was upfront about his struggles to stop maybe it’d be a different story. but if you’ve very clearly communicated that it hurts you when he watches it and he not only continues but hides it and lies about it? that is awful, i’m sorry i’m sure this is painful for you but no you are not the asshole🤍 he is.

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Porn is one thing but following specific creators to chat with and stuff like that.. yeah you’re not the asshole there.

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