
Today a situation arose, she is in town for my boyfriends birthday dinner, which she invited herself too:) every Wednesday I’m taking care of mt grandmother she is 95 and was in a awful car accident recently. My grandmother and his mom have never met and don’t even know each others names, well today while I was helping my grandmother I get a text from my boyfriend saying that his mother is on her way to the hospital my grandmother is at. 2/4
I texted him back very quickly asking if this was a joke? Because first of all how does she know what hospital I am at, i then am talking to my grandmothers nurses and I get another text from him saying that she is at the hospital. I lose my shit because to me this is wildly inappropriate, the fact she never asked if now was a good time to come and visit or ask if she was allowed to come see MY grandmother is beyond me, AITA for not wanting her to be at my boyfriends birthday dinner tommorow