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AITA 1d
went 2 the club with some friends,I saw one of my old hs friends and we started talking (both drunk). At some point he kissed me, I pushed him away immediately but i’m not sure if i should tell my boyfriend. He and the dude don’t like eachother and
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Anonymous 1d

you should prob tell him

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Anonymous 1d

I’m scared he won’t believe me when I tell him the story and that I didn’t kiss him back nor did I give him a reason to think it was okay in the first place . I honestly have no idea why the dude kissed me as nothing we were talking about alluded to flirting. He knows me and the guy hooked up once in highschool but it’s been almost 3 years and I haven’t since him since until that night. would I be the asshole for keeping it to my self?

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Anonymous 16h

It sounds like a toxic relationship already. He should not be telling you what to do. Then the lies wouldn't have started. If you can't tell him, and telling him results in an argument or break up, it's not a healthy relationship anyway.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I feel like this might be break up worthy though as it happened almost 2 weeks ago. The guilt has been killing me and I know it will probably look even worse considering i didn’t tell him for so long but I genuinely had no idea how to bring it up as he didn’t want me to the bar in the first place so I lied and said I was hanging out with my friends. (which was partially true but they all made the decision mid hang out to go out) So I guess it’s my fault that the lies keep piling up but still

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I would say tell your bf because it seems like you were assaulted? You didn’t want to kiss that friend but he went to kiss you and you immediately reacted away. I wish you told your bf about it right away. I hope your bf is understanding and patient enough to realize how uncomfortable you must have been about the whole thing. Good luck take care 🫂

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