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Is going out with my single friend (extroverted and flirty) to a Caribbean club disrespecting my relationship? For her bday. My bf is threatening to break up because I previously agreed to go in a group of girls, but I pretty much only have her to go with
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Anonymous 1w

Continue to go… don’t let anyone control you

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Anonymous 1w

He’ll get over it

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Anonymous 1w

I don’t think he gets to tell ya what to do but he gets to react to what ya do. So act accordingly

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Anonymous 1w

Nta, you are going out with your girl for her birthday. Maybe try and have a talk being like hey I get it kinda makes you uncomfortable but what can we do to make it better while still allowing me to go. Do you need to check in every so often? Is he only okay for a certain amount of time? Sometimes we don’t get why ppl are uncomfortable and it’s best to ask them why and have an adult convo about it not just him being like “I don’t want you to go” and you being like “but it’s not that deep” yk?

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Anonymous 1w

before listening to all these other comments, think about this. be SO honest with yourself right now, would you be upset at him if the roles were reversed?

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Anonymous 1w

He needs to get a grip. Isolating a partner is not cool. Sounds like he’s convinced you will cheat. Lowkey flattering like, oh ok you think I’m so hot that I will have to physically fend off men when I’m with my girl? Get offended he thinks you’d cheat.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Thanks I appreciate this 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

LMAOOOOO

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Facts

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Yeah I get what you’re saying, but I’ve genuinely tried and he’s unwilling to compromise

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