That is a red flag. When I’m deciding to be done with someone or continue I ask myself is this the kind of behavior I could deal with for the rest of my life? Like actually. Married to this person, together forever? Would I want to deal with that on a daily basis. Because they won’t change. If he hasn’t already then he won’t.

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to clarify, i’ve tried communicating with him about what he expects out of this but he said he doesn’t know even though he pursued me first and trying to get him to talk to me regularly or at least give me a heads up that he can’t chat rn is like pulling teeth! my friends all say that he’s a total red flag but i need an unbiased opinion bc i am truly sad i had to end things

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nah your friends are right absolutely a red flag. you should never feel like you’re “forcing” someone to be an adult and communicate and if you have to force the bare minimum, they’re not gonna get any better as time goes on

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