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AITA For ignoring my roommate's request. Months ago I got permission to have 2 friends spend a few nights here as they're attending an event at our school as alumni. They're arriving Friday and my roommate just told me that she doesn't want to have 2-
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Anonymous 5d

Nta, it is your place too

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Anonymous 6d

People sleeping in our livingroom anymore (my bedroom is too small to put in an air mattress). I reminded her that we planned this months ago and because of that, my friends probably won't have enough money saved up for a hotel. Not to mention if there's any space available because a lot of events are happening next weekend in town. I told her that my friends are still coming over and I will not put one of them in a hotel. I told her that because she made this decision last minute, she can get-

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Anonymous 6d

Your roommates kinda the AH for going back on their word. If they clearly remember giving you the go-ahead to having your friends over and then says no last minute when this is already in the course of happening. Then that’s on your roommate. Was there any specific reason why your roommate went back on their word? Like any extra details about your friends staying over that you might’ve left out initially when proposing the idea?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

One of them a hotel room. But none of us will be paying as we have had this confirmed for months

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

When I first asked why, she said it was because she doesn't want 2 people sleeping in the livingroom. I want to sympathize because she doesn't know them so they are 2 strangers to her, but they are some of my closest friends who I've known for years.

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