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AITA: My roommate keeps taking my things to her boyfriend’s dorm without my permission. I told her to not take stuff over there because she just leaves it. She takes my cooking items and now my shampoo and conditioner. Should I keep everything in my room?
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Anonymous 5w

Not the asshole and yes you should. That’s your property and if she can’t respect it then she loses the right to use it

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Anonymous 5w

Give that girl a receipt and say she owes you everything left over there or file a report for stolen items

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Anonymous 5w

I say slap the shit out of her if she does it again but that’s just me idk 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 5w

I’ll record

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Anonymous 5w

Let’s not promote violence as a FIRST option. Technically, the roommate is stealing your items and you have every right to have it brought back to you or paid for. I recommend having a talk with them, saying “I’m not comfortable with you taking my times outside of the dorm (or apt) and I’d like for them to be returned asap.”

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Anonymous 5w

Hit her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Okay because I was wondering.. Like there should be no reason I need to ask for my things back…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Precisely

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

(2/2) If you live in a dorm or school apt, let your RA or Resident staff know the satiation. If you live in an apartment, and she refused to return or pay for the items, file a police report for theft. I hope this helps and that you take action.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

situation*

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