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AITA 1d
Im not going for “I was busy” fuck that yall screen time be over 18 hours a day yall ain’t busy yall playing in my face just say you don’t wanna talk like an adult 😡
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Anonymous 1d

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Anonymous 1d

I mean maybe. But also take a hint? I’m having a problem with a guy who keeps texting me and asking me on dates and I’m trying to be gentle and friendly but every time I’m “nice” he takes it as interest and from a 3rd party perspective, it’s clear as day I’m not interested. It’s hard to let somone down gently when they are idealizing a relationship before one has even developed.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

tell it to him straight don't fucking sugarcoat it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

take the hint take the hint, just say it damn bruh. are you that scared to tell someone hey i don't see us working out? just say it damn

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

Well that’s if he’s not just being friendly. Like I don’t wanna give off the “I have a boyfriend” vibe

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

There is no “not working out” we’ve met twice through mutuals and now he’s in my DMs asking me all my plans for the next two weeks

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

then tell him you're not interested and if he keeps pushing, block him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

give off the im not interested vibe then? honestly why do you want to give off a vibe? if you don't fw him, just let him know

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

Because we share common circles. A lot of them. And I don’t wanna make future social gatherings awkward. And I’m pretty sure rarely replying to him gives off the not interested vibe. So I’m doing just that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

would you rather someone you like give you replies here and there or just tell you something straight up? he's excited you even keep replying. just flat out say i'm not interested. it's not awkward to reject someone in a common circle but it definitely is when you keep avoiding them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

I’m the opposite you reject me and I will avoid those social gatherings all together. So not everyone sees things the way you do. And if I am wrong and he’s not into me then I’ve compounded the issue

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

you're placing value in yourself if someone else can see it? that's not a good thing to do? if you can't handle rejection then don't try to talk to people cause it can and will happen to you. he's not into you but you said he keeps asking you on dates and shit like that, okay

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