Break up with him you deserve way better and clearly care way more than him and he doesn’t respect your opinion

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My hunch is that he’s done something wrong and he feels guilty for it, and now he’s trying to make you feel like you’re the one in the wrong.

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conversation with me about it. and when i asked what changed he said he’s recently become more into the idea of waiting to move in together and starting things until we’re married (he’s never ever believed in that). i asked why and he told me because im “fighting him” on it that’s it’s telling of my character and that im being disrespectful and need to accept his decision. we argued and then he told me how stupid and ridiculous i was being and how since he’s been gone he hasn’t felt an ounce of

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AITA for saying all of this? am i in the wrong for thinking that this decision should have been brought up to me in conversation before he signed the papers and made the decision on his own? i dont like how disrespectful he’s being to me about all of it, name calling and cursing and such. he’s being really mean and i dont know why. i feel like ive done my best supporting him while also having my own life since he’s been gone.

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support of love from me. i call him daily, send him notes of encouragement, even when he can’t talk i’ll send messages to show im thinking of him. and he told me none of it has felt meaningful to him. but apparently he’s saying because i don’t agree with him on this issue and im “fighting back” he is seeing my differently. i just wanted him to include me in the conversation.

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Definitely NTA. I agree with #2 on this

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Did the journal factory explode?

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