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AITA for wanting to ghost. So its been like 4mon. Hes just too clingy/affectionate and when hes aggravated hes not clear in his words and im one for communication. Hes a great support but now its long distance and hes practically begging me to go back
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Anonymous 3w

Don’t ghost him, but you should probably make it clear whatever it is yall have between you is over. Trust me ghosting will hurt him like hell

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Anonymous 3w

from your other comments, definitely time to end it

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Anonymous 3w

I wouldn’t ghost but I would break it off. Doesn’t even need a whole explanation can j be you stating what you want and how you need space and want to see how it plays out in your new spot. I also think since he’s already so clingy without stating this he’ll j try to hold on more. And you could j block and move on but idk I don’t need him tryna come see you cause he thinks your together. Some ppl can’t take a hint. Maybe quick and direct and then ghost

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Anonymous 3w

And i lwk want to see how my life here would play out but i cant truly embrace that if i have him on my phone constantly. Hes been the only consistent thing in my life rn and i like him but i feel stuck

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Anonymous 3w

I would talk to him first

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Anonymous 3w

Ghost him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I have, ive told him i wanna take it slower and yk start as friends bc you gotta ask me to be in a relationship or ill ask you, but he js keeps reverting to his clinginess and just claiming we are in a relationship

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