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AITA for wanting to break up with my long distance boyfriend? I’ve recently came down during break to be with him and I’ve been paying for everything his gas helping his mom with bills and cleaning up after him.i just kinda feel taken advantage of
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Anonymous 4w

Sounds like he wants a mommy not a gf. NTA. You’re not responsible for your partners finances

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Anonymous 4w

What could he possibly be contributing to you that is worth your income?

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Anonymous 4w

Dump his ass

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Anonymous 4w

More context the money I receive is from my disability checks and it’s currently the only income I have

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Anonymous 4w

He’s in community college rn first year he has applied but no one has reached out to hire from what I was told

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Anonymous 4w

dump his ass

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Anonymous 4w

Girl he doesn’t like you.

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Anonymous 4w

you should be investing the money that you’ll save when you dump him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Nothing he just tells his family is struggling with bills sometimes will go shopping but usually have to pay for my things cause he’s unemployed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Besides the fact that he Ubers but that’s about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Is there a reason he doesn’t have a full time job?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

He has to reach out and apply unless there’s recruiters at his community college.. or atleast make some job board accounts and set them up to be seen by recruiters

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