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AITA for being upset my bf said “probably not” when I asked if he’d be able to help me pay our bills this month? This isn’t even taking into account the amount of food I buy :(
4 upvotes, 12 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in AITA. "AITA for being upset my bf said “probably not” when I asked if he’d be able to help me pay our bills this month? This isn’t even taking into account the amount of food I buy :("
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Anonymous 9w

Idk what job he has but the fact that not only your his date but disabled too, and he’s not even making an effort to really pitch in is crazy. I understand that this economy is crazy but you’re spreading yourself thin. If he doesn’t treat you good at your worst then he’s not the best one. It would be different if he was like ‘oh it’s tough on my end but I’ll make it work’, but flat out saying he can’t? 🚩

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Anonymous 9w

Also, for reference, I am disabled so I can only work part-time and average around 1300 a month so this is where ALL my money goes. My bf does DoorDash

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Anonymous 9w

No! WTF? His ass better be sharing the bills. No freeloading!

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Anonymous 9w

Not the asshole and I'm going to be frank, but you can take this with a grain of salt since I have limited context of you two, but I would honestly leave him. Him not contributing as a pattern is just incredibly wrong, especially when you're disabled (I am also disabled)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Honestly I moved states away from my family and everything. I can’t drive either. I’m worried about becoming homeless if I did that since I can barely work as much as I do :( apparently his mother said that she thinks I take advantage of him which pmo cause I def feel if anything it’s the other way around

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Well imo his mother can suck my dick idk. As far as all of that I am so sorry I understand that completely. Is there anyone you can reach out to or resources near you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

No :( he was super great when I first moved in. Worked like crazzzyy. Idk what been with him the last few months

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Ironically he worked much more when I had an ACTUAL job at 2000+ a month before my health tanked which makes absolutely no sense to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Oh honey :( I don't want to assume anything but this sounds like it's directly because your health tanked? It's unfortunately all too common for men to leave their partners when they're sick etc. I hope that's not why but it's sounding like it. I hope everything gets better for you whatever happens.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I hope not. Is it bad I just hope he is going through a bit of depression or something?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Yeah it is not great 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Not at all because that would be something you could work on, I completely get it

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