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Normalize simply telling people “No.” instead of ghosting them
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Anonymous 1w

I might be wrong about this but to be completely honest, I can’t grasp why people complain so much about being ghosted in most situations (outside of it hurting their ego of course), I think if the person is your significant other, then yeah they definitely owe you an in person verbal: I dont want this anymore, goodbye. But tbh in most other situations, being ghosted should be communication enough. Cause if someone ghosts you, they pretty much want nothing to do with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

And I think that’s just a reality we have to accept. People use people’s time all the time, and sometimes we’re dumbfounded when figuring out the truth of a situation, but at the end of the day all is fair in love and war.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

It hurts, the same way it hurts when you buy a lottery ticket and get no money. If you were under the assumption that you weren’t entering a situation where you could possibly end up in pain then tbh, human interaction just isn’t for you.

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