AITA on Sidechat | Would I bta for cutting off a friend for being low effort. Idk she swears up and down she wants to see me but ghosts me for a week everytime i actually suggest something. I’m done being the only one putting in effort. Sorry if you see this girl lol

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AITA 15h

Would I bta for cutting off a friend for being low effort. Idk she swears up and down she wants to see me but ghosts me for a week everytime i actually suggest something. I’m done being the only one putting in effort. Sorry if you see this girl lol

21 upvotes, 4 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in AITA. "Would I bta for cutting off a friend for being low effort. Idk she swears up and down she wants to see me but ghosts me for a week everytime i actually suggest something. I’m done being the only one putting in effort. Sorry if you see this girl lol"

Anonymous 15h

I had a friend like this and I honestly just stopped replying because it was like she wanted to but didn’t have the energy, not worth your time or worries

Anonymous 9h

i don't think she's necessarily wrong for being bad at texting/responding, but if you feel like you're doing all the work and she just doesn't care about the friendship, then fs you're fine in cutting her off

Anonymous 21m

Yes. Meet her where she’s at. Adjust your expectations. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Also she might feel intimidated responding to you after you spoke to her kinda aggressive like that^

Anonymous

#2 9h

honestly if it's a friendship dynamic you don't like in any way, you're nta for ending the friendship, without it being a moral inspection of either party