Anonymous #1 4w

a lot of people try to pass it off as no big deal and say girls are being dramatic abt it

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Anonymous #4 2w

r u aware what a pron star is cause comparing them to an actually talented actor or actress is wild lmfao they literally fuck on camera so following their socials shows u watch em too which is a huge boundary many ppl have in relationships. if ur eyes are on other ppl u shouldn’t be in a relationship 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous #2 2w

It’s ok to set up whatever boundaries you want to, I’m not bashing that. But at the end of the day, they are an actor, whether you agree or not. And more importantly, they are one person out of billions that you’ll statistically never meet. It’s not like you haven’t had dirty thoughts about a celebrity before. How is thinking about it different than watching them? Either way, you’re finishing yourself to a person you’ll never meet. But “putting eyes on someone” and “fantasy” are different things

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Anonymous #4 2w

ain’t nothing acting bout fucking on camera that’s purely just making a video or all tiktok posters would be actors for simply recording themselves too recording urself doing something does not automatically make u an actor… and actually no i dont think sexual things about other ppl regardless of how famous they are because i truly love my partner and couldn’t fathom looking at anyone else in that way.

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Anonymous #2 2w

You don’t have to agree if they’re actors or not, but it is their job title. But we can just use another term, “famous person”. And if you’ve never thought about a famous person sexually, you are 100% lying or can’t remember. You are living in a fantasy world if you actually believe that your SO is the most attractive person in the world 🤣 out of 7+ billion people. In my opinion, if my girl sees a hot dude and looks at him, not a big deal. Hot women catch my eye too. Doesn’t mean I want them.

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Anonymous #4 2w

whole point of the post was this person asking if it was a normal thing to break up with someone for and it is if they have the boundary set, I don’t know why you have to keep arguing the semantics. and seeing a hot dude and following someone who literally has sex online or two different things again. Your comparisons are weak and you’ve already agreed that it can be a boundary so again why do you keep arguing? yap yap yap

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Anonymous #2 2w

I’m not bashing OP or anyone who has these boundaries set, I just don’t see the difference between watching porn of a famous person, thinking about sex with a famous person, admiring another attractive person, etc. If the SO was watching porn/OF/etc of somebody they knew then that’s a different story though. Also, you started the argument with me and then come at me like “idk why you keep arguing yap yap” 🤣 ok bud

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Anonymous #2 2w

And you throw in the “idk why you’re arguing about semantics” as if semantics don’t matter. Bud that mindset is exactly how clickbait operates, what legal hackers/social engineers use to gain access, how scummy lawyers/hospitals/insurance companies/etc. are able to weasel their way out when they need to.

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Anonymous #4 2w

what are u on abt bro

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