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aita for wanting to keep my own baby?
202 upvotes, 21 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in AITA. "aita for wanting to keep my own baby?"
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Anonymous 21h

No but get him to terminate his parental rights. It is going to be a long 18 years if you do not.

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Anonymous 22h

No. Pro choice means choice to not keep OR keep. Do what you feel is right!

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Anonymous 23h

Stand your ground queen.

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Anonymous 21h

Don’t let him force you to make a decision you don’t want to. It’s completely your right to choose, but keep in mind you can’t force him to be there and help you which sucks. Just take all the legal steps you need to secure help from him financially for your child.

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Anonymous 15h

You got this, go and be a great mom, your baby will go on to do great things. His father is sick for wanted to have him killed.

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Anonymous 19h

Fuck that guy. Use all your rights to drag his ass through the mud

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Anonymous 18h

Fuck👏🏼ing👏🏼read👏🏼that👏🏼man👏🏼

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Anonymous 8h

No, but i would be wary of raising a kid if you don’t have the support/funds without him. Having a kid is a lot of responsibility and you want to make sure that kid can be put into a good situation.

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Anonymous 10h

you keep that baby and don’t let him near it

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Anonymous 3h

A child without a father is destined to fail… we need penalties for absent fathers

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Anonymous 13h

He was right

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

This is very wrong. Forcing him to be involved with a child he did not want to keep is immoral. It should be BOTH parents decision to keep and care for a child.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

im very comfortable with the fact that i will be a single mom. i have a wholeee village to support me and his involvement in his child’s life is up to him but i would never give up the baby that IM growing inside me and that decision is solely mine to make. hope this helps 🤗

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 19h

Agreed- fight him for full parental rights and keep all those texts to back your argument

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

Ngl I agree with you and it’s the darker side of the truth. If he doesn’t want to be involved forcing him to pay for it is bs. But the legal system favors the mother always has and always will

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 19h

if he chooses to not be in his child’s life, that’s his prerogative but legally there’s consequences to those actions. we’re both adults and know how babies happen soooo no one’s forcing him to pay anything. all actions have consequences ☺️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

Yeah for sure im not saying your forcing him. Obviously I don’t know the whole story I’m just generalizing. I don’t agree with him dissing you and calling you immature for wanting to keep it though. In my personal opinion if you’re good enough to lay down with a woman then you need to access the risk of pregnancy. Hope you have a safe and comfortable pregnancy though.🙏🏾

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

You’re*

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 12h

that i should kill my baby? like what kind of ragebait is this LMAOO

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9h

The legal system doesn’t favor the mother. In custody cases it seems that way, but that’s because the mother is more likely to SEEK custody. In cases where the father actually sought custody, 90% of times he wins. It’s just that fathers very rarely choose to seek custody.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9h

Strawmans argument. I never dissed her for wanting to keep it. I dissed the idea of him paying for an u consensual pregnancy. Consent for a child goes both ways.

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