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AITA 27w
Or being too sensitive if I always remember to wish my friends happy birthday but they NEVER remember mine. Like this is the second year and it’s the whole friend group even after I was already kinda sad last yr.like damn Apple has scheduled messages now…
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Anonymous 27w

Nta I feel the same way abt my friends but with overall achievements. I always see them hyping up each other but silence for me

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Anonymous 27w

YTA. For one, you can celebrate any day, not just on the day itself? For two, you’re expecting people to remember your birthday just because you remember theirs. Some people are bad at remembering dates, some people don’t value birthdays for celebration, some people just have other priorities. It’s really not that deep.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 27w

To be clear, I think a good friend should remember your birthday or at least your birth month and make an effort to show their appreciation if they can, especially with social media displaying your birthday and stuff, but like who cares if they miss it? Maybe they had a fucking pipe break and their house flooded that day. Extreme /unlikely example I know, but my point is they have stuff going on too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 27w

Now if that friend IS the type of person to be good with dates or value birthday celebrations or whatever and they consistently don’t remember yours, maybe there’s an argument there in your favor, but in general it’s not that deep

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Anonymous 27w

If their close friends and really value u as a friend they should realize that birthdays are important considering how u value their own even if they don’t value it themselves taking 10 seconds to write something like happy bd can’t see how that would entitlement on ur end but considering they done it before u shouldn’t have the expectation they would

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 27w

Important to u*

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