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IKITA but I hate redemption stories. Some people don’t deserve a second chance.
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Anonymous 2w

How I feel about invisible rn cause fuck omniman

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Anonymous 2w

Nobody deserves a second chance. But that’s the definition of grace, getting what you do not deserve. No one is entitled to second chances, but if you receive them, and do not give them to others, then you are a hypocrite.

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Anonymous 2w

And some people don’t want them. I think a story is just as if not more realistic when the villain is doing something that they know is wrong and don’t care. If a villain is genuinely evil for the sake of being evil and LOVES it, I think the story is even better.

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Anonymous 2w

my favorite redemption story is snape. mainly because (aside from some actually pretty awful behavior towards harry and his friends, which the movies don’t show very well) he was NEVER the bad guy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I give people second chances all the time, but at this rate I feel like a human doormat.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

As someone who previously was just like that: you need to give second, mayyyybe third chances, but after that you cut them off. It might hurt but you’ll be better off in the end

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I think I like you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

No actually and my boyfriend won’t shut up about how he’s grown and blah blah. Like no. Dude called her a pet she should not take him back

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

some people deserve second chances, it wholly depends on the situation, mindset behind their actions, and the level of remorse they show. giving too much grace can be just as harmful as not giving any. be discerning in who you give your energy to

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

right, so at that point we come to what the definition of a second chance is. Forgiving someone isn’t the same as not putting up boundaries against someone. Because you used redemption as a synonym to second chances, I assumed you meant the forgiveness form of the word. You can put up boundaries so that a person cannot continue to hurt you while still forgiving them and hoping that they become a better person and being ready to accept a full redemption if it that is possible.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Well, you were talking about second chances. I thought you were talking about something different.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

And also killed thousands of people 😭

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