no same, i've been with my bf for 3 years and don't follow any of his siblings. I also wouldn't follow any gf my brother got unless we got super close. i'd say it's not really how long they've been together but rather your relationship with that new person

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I mean I get ur point, I don’t wanna follow any random girl my brother gets with, depends how you say it though, cuz at first I thought you were saying it like you didn’t wanna follow her cuz you were tryna do a bro code type thing, you gotta make that clear cuz that would be kinda weird, but if it’s really their gf I could see it being uncomfortable and might cause anxiety/stress if you don’t, but hey it’s urs and you shouldn’t feel pressured to connect with people you don’t want to

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no that’s fair, i didn’t follow my brothers new (in the context of like 3 years ago) gf on anything for a WHILEEEE and, even though they’re broken up now, im still mutuals with her on tiktok and insta bc there’s no bad blood between them and she spent so much time with us. it all depends on the relationship (between all parties tbh)

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tbh depends how many people you have on ig. if it’s just like friends and family, def not but if u follow like 300+ people then lowk

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ehhh YTA don’t you want to know what girl is up to? the entire dating part is to build relationships w eachother and the people surrounding them

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