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AITA for not choosing times to hangout/what to do with my friends. I’ve been job searching for a few months now and moneys been almost non existent, but my friends are adamant about hanging out with me a few times a week. They pick me up and drop me off 1
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Anonymous 15h

2. -Everytime we do something. Lately one of them has been getting annoyed because I don’t put in input when it comes to food. I’ve explained to her that I’m always down for anything and feel weird saying what I want if it isn’t coming from my pocket. To me that’s pretty reasonable. I always say thank you for the rides and the food and the fun time in general

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Anonymous 12h

ur so not the asshole bro 😭 thats on them

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Anonymous 3h

Start suggesting games nights at your place or theirs that’s what I do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

3. But it’s starting to get frustrating that I’ve made it very clear that I feel guilty about all the hang outs and money spent on me. Which neither of them lack, they are in very good standing and loaded. So a few bucks on me isn’t an issue. But to me it makes me feel weird and I’ve explained it multiple times that if we’re gonna do this, they’ll have to pick. And they ask ME to hang out, not the other way around. AITA?

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