don’t ask for it all just ask to go to the store and then be like “ hey you diiiid lose this thing from the suitcase can u get me another “ asking for the contents of the bag would be rude , be smart getting ur stuff without being mean it’s an accident and you are together if it was a friend id say yea but he as spend that money on you before for sure and wouldn’t mind to again but it’s the way of saying it is what matters