I have no issue with makeup, nails, dressing up (I do all three) or wanting a guy to pay for dates. It’s when you’re saying he has to BECAUSE you’re doing those things when he hasn’t told you that you need to that I think it’s odd. Most women don’t do that but I’ve seen a few in mostly women’s spaces who say stuff like that and I’ve never gotten it. Like I’m not demanding my bf pay for lunch cause I wanted a new lipstick I was gonna wear regardless of if we were dating?