AITA on Sidechat | So I went on this date and this guy was perfect. He was attractive, kind, and we got along on a lot of things. But then he drops the bomb that he’s in love with his step sister and is dating me to get over her. I ended things with him because I was like-

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AITA 16w

So I went on this date and this guy was perfect. He was attractive, kind, and we got along on a lot of things. But then he drops the bomb that he’s in love with his step sister and is dating me to get over her. I ended things with him because I was like-

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Anonymous 16w

Wtf is wrong with you. He got all defensive and said that I should be kind to him because he’s getting over a relationship. Then he got MY MOTHER involved. I blocked him on everything then he sent me a handwritten passive aggressive letter. AITA?

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Anonymous 16w

0 possibility of u being the asshole in this situation he literally admitted he’s using you and HES IN LOVE WITH HIS STEP SISTER THAT IS CRAZY RUN BABY RUN SO FAR

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Anonymous 16w

Here’s a bit of an update. He got his friends to bash me online and wrote me ANOTHER hand written note saying I was the worst person he’s ever met for not supporting him through this. How am I supposed to support him? ATP I’m willing to pay for his therapy because boy he needs it

Anonymous 16w

That’s INSANE

Anonymous 16w

This can’t be real

Anonymous 16w

He needs a psych ward, Dr Phil, and intense therapy

Anonymous 16w

Omfg get police to his house to leave you alone if he continues that yall went on a DATE your under no obligation to help him get over a relationship or be particularly nice to him after he dropped that on you halp

Anonymous 16w

GET A RESTRAINING ORDER!! THEN MAYBE HE WILL STOP SENDING LETTERS

Anonymous 16w

Good for you!! Do not ever get into a sketchy situation that your gut is screaming no against!!

Anonymous 16w

RUN

Anonymous 16w

Girl is there any other way he can contact you besides another handwritten letter? Because you cant let him contact you again. Can he contact you in any way???

Anonymous 16w

UPDATE!!!! My restraining order got filed and I’ve befriended campus police so we’re good.

Anonymous 16w

THE WAY MY JAW DROPPED

Anonymous 16w

Were they dating? wtf

Anonymous 16w

Girl can I get an update?

Anonymous 16w

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Anonymous 16w

Bro ur storytelling is 10/10 I was reading and I was like ok pretty tamed then wtf?? Had me shocked

Anonymous 16w

UGH GIRL U DODGED A BULLET

Anonymous 16w

I… is this real ???

Anonymous 16w

Yikes

Anonymous 16w

ayo what da

Anonymous 16w

Nah u fumbled a solid 10 fr

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Anonymous

#4 16w

Trust me… I wish it wasn’t

Anonymous

#5 16w

Dr Phil is the last thing anyone needs

Anonymous

#8 16w

I need him

Anonymous

#9 16w

Are you a republican candidate?

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Anonymous

OP 16w

Out him

Anonymous

OP 16w

He doesn’t deserve any better than that

Anonymous

OP 16w

Keep updating us!!

Anonymous

OP 16w

How smooth did he think he was

Anonymous

OP 16w

tell his friends that he’s in love w his step sister i think that should get him to fuck off

Anonymous

OP 16w

are you dead ass asking if youre the asshole

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Anonymous

#13 16w

No he can’t even send them to my apartment anymore because I moved. He has friends hand deliver them to me-

Anonymous

OP 16w

Another Update. So he contacted my mother abt this earlier and my mom’s encouraging me to play into it for her psychology study. I can’t with this. A month ago I was so bored and I wanted the plot to thicken, but I didn’t expect Ts

Anonymous

OP 16w

Motha what are you doing to your child 😭 pretty soon the study will be on your own child 😭😭

Anonymous

OP 16w

Nah because I would throw them away IMMEDIATELY 😭

Anonymous

OP 16w

Girl no you have to get out of there

Anonymous

OP 16w

no thats actually wild. how do his friends know where you moved?? they come to your new place?? do they stalk you??😭😭

Anonymous

#19 16w

They hand deliver it to me at school or at work

Anonymous

OP 16w

They are secondhand stalking you 😭 GIRL GET OUT OF THERE‼️‼️

Anonymous

OP 16w

you go to the same school as your ex and his friends?

Anonymous

#19 16w

Yah I met them at college

Anonymous

OP 16w

okay that makes a little more sense

Anonymous

OP 16w

is there a way you can transfer to s different university for next year so you dont have to see them again? one thats in a different city or state?

Anonymous

OP 16w

if you still have a few more years to do at university before you graduate

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Anonymous

OP 16w

This is a little psychotic but rip the letter in half without reading it and hand it back to the friend. Do it as many times as possible until he gets the hint. Try filing for harassment if he keeps contacting u when it’s not desired.

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Anonymous

#22 16w

Mine too 🤧

Anonymous

OP 16w

Ayyyy slay queen

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#11 16w

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OP 16w

YESSSSS YOU TOOK MY ADVICE GOOD JOB!!! IM SO PROUD OF YOU QUEEN!!🤩👏🏼👏🏼

Anonymous

OP 16w

did you also get a restraining order on his friends/everyone involved as well? not just him? idk how it works tbh since they are like a third party and its not actually him delivering you the letters

Anonymous

OP 16w

LFGGG QUEEN what a creep glad you got sorted out

Anonymous

#19 16w

No because I talked to one of them after they tried to hand me a note and then we all decided to team up against him and danced whimsically in a circle. Shout out to them they’re my homeboys now. He lost his girl and his besties

Anonymous

OP 16w

HAHAHA THATS AMAZINGGG OMG

Anonymous

OP 16w

best update

Anonymous

OP 16w

Fantastic ending

Anonymous

OP 16w

YES GIRL LETS GO!