
to stop blowing everything out of proportion and needs to start communicating, she went crying to her mommy and made her mommy yell at me for her. also just for further information, she literally comes over, immediately gives everyone but me (until now) attitude, refuses to eat here bc she knows it upsets my mom. she’d go home and tell her mom all our family business but ignores the fact that her mom didn’t want her for the first 5 years of her life and how her mom’s grandma let her get burns-
so bad at 4 years old that she needed a skin graph bc she wasn’t watching her, how her moms ex bf hit her when she was a toddler. but God forbid she sits on the couch on her phone ignoring everyone while she’s here, what a hard life 🙄. also when she gets in trouble here she texts her mom to go home without asking so my brother or dad will have to drop everything last second to drive her to her moms (bc her mom won’t pick her up) just bc she knows she won’t be grounded there
well she lost that with me. 14 is too old, in my opinion, to go crying to her mommy the first and only time I ever didn’t take her side. I did so much for her for YEARS and this is how she repays me. if this is how it’s going to be then I’m not helping her at ALL anymore and we’ll see how far she gets with NO ONE on her side. I have my own life to worry about and if she isn’t going to listen to my help then I’m not gonna waste my time. she’ll just go off snitching to her mommy again anyway
also. she was getting her mom to yell at me so I blocked her bc I really wasn’t interested in her making her mommy fight me for telling her to communicate or get over it. and she went crying to my sister telling her that she told her dad she didn’t want to come over temporarily (a lie, she told me she’d make an excuse every time it was his weekend to not come over which is what she’s been doing) and that I blocked her (true, but she left out that I blocked her bc she made her mom yell at me)-
-so I snitched on her and told my sister all the shit her and her mom said about my sister. bc the ONE time I don’t take her side she goes whining to the person she has been telling me for years that she HATES. she was trying to get my sister on her side and mad at me, trying to get everyone in my family to turn on me just bc she’s mad at me
I’m not her caretaker. it’s not my fault my brother and her mom couldn’t use a condom and got knocked up as teens then both refused to take care of their child for YEARS. not my fault she’s GROWN and needs to go crying to mommy the ONE time I don’t take her side. I literally defended her every single time and the ONE time I didn’t she goes crying and tattling. she’s way too old for that. then she went tattling to my sister (who she goes on and on to me about how she hates her) about me-
-telling her to communicate. as if my sister was gonna take her side. my niece literally told me she hates everyone in this family (except me at the time) and then immediately went to all of them trying to get them mad at me just bc she was mad at me. so I told them everything she said about them 🤷♀️ actions have consequences. she needs to grow up. I’m not and will never be her caretaker. she needs to stop watching shows like Ginny and Georgia with her mom bc it makes her try too hard to make-
-herself into a victim. literally she got in trouble for breaking into mine and my sisters room (we locked it to keep her out while we were away and she’d pick the lock and go through every square inch of our room. under pillows, back corners of closets. she’d steal from us). she knew my sister and I were mad at her but all the adults let it slide so she wouldn’t go crying to her mommy and making my brother immediately take her to her moms so she wouldn’t get in trouble 🙄 and then she lied and-
-said she didn’t do it even though I was sitting in my room. I watched her walk into my room and suddenly my key was missing. she’s too old to be doing things like this, too old to be lying. they need to stop enabling her. she’s going to turn into a terrible adult and idgaf bc I won’t be speaking to her anymore.
she’s not some 5 year old who doesn’t know better. she’s doing this on purpose bc people like you let her get away with it. she’s broken my trust. she turned on me the ONE time I didn’t coddle her. got her moms whole family against me and tried to get my whole family against me. she’s far too old to be trying to have her dramatic “my life is so tortured” moment like she sees in the TV shows she watches.
no. she is close to driving, been dating, trying to get a job. if she wants all that then she needs to grow the fuck up and stop running ti her mommy every time someone corrects her behavior. wtf is she gonna do when a boss yells at her or her driving instructor. I wasn’t acting shithijg like this at that age age you downvoting my comments isn’t changing my mind. I know the situation and you don’t and that’s really all that needs to be said.