It’s possible he’s just getting lost in his convo with his friends. Idk cause sometimes my friend’s boyfriend becomes a background character when the girls are talking about girl business if yk what i mean. But then again he might also just be an asshole and tryna act like he’s not a simp and all that bs

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Maybe ask him about it? Like say he when you ignored me at the bar the other day that kinda hurt, was it because you were super caught up with your friends or is something else going on? And I guess take it from there?

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Update: after the bar he was all over me. Now tonight we are drinking again and he’s acting like I still don’t exist even tho we are alone sitting next to each other in the apartment waiting to go out. I’m just lost. When we aren’t together and he’s drunk all he does is talk about how he wishes I was there. But now that I am it’s like he couldn’t care less if I was here or not. Won’t even talk to me, is on tik tok. His own brother has been more talkative to me tn

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I suggest reflecting on his behavior when it’s just the two of you vs when you’re with others. Having a different personality with different groups of people isn’t wrong, but inconsistent or confusing behavior can lead to emotional distress Communicate with him on the inconsistencies and how you feel hurt or neglected and offer solutions in making you feel included and secure If his bad behavior becomes a pattern that’s making little to no progress, then it’s your choice to put up with it

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Break up with him, he clearly doesn’t respect you. He didn’t even acknowledge you. He’s showing you his true colors. If u gotta come on Yikyak to ask, you already know there’s an issue and it’s him

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