AITA on Sidechat | aita for getting irked my boyfriend was showing me another woman’s thirst traps we were at the bar, shows me a beautiful woman’s thirst trap post, asks “what do u think about this” .. got mad when i said “what do You think?” like ???. am i crazy idk

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aita for getting irked my boyfriend was showing me another woman’s thirst traps we were at the bar, shows me a beautiful woman’s thirst trap post, asks “what do u think about this” .. got mad when i said “what do You think?” like ???. am i crazy idk

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Anonymous 1d

he replied like “god i really can’t show u anything can i?” and i’m sitting there like ??????????

Anonymous 1d

the way i would be absolutely appalled and probably angry if my bf tried to do that (without some actual reason, just for the sake of showing me)

Anonymous 1d

My gf and I shit talk people who do that so maybe that’s what he was trying to do.

Anonymous 1d

Pls break up with him

Anonymous 21h

If my boyfriend did this I would leave him at the bar and never speak to him again. Disrespecting you deliberately and in public so you can’t react without “looking crazy”. Is that the kind of man you want in your life?

Anonymous 19h

What sort of response was he expecting lol

Anonymous 1d

Nah if my GF did that shit Id lowkey be reconsidering

Anonymous 8h

idk me and my boyfriend be up in places lookin TOGETHER, we're both pan and we're entirely committed to each other in every way, but we can still appreciate when someone looks good as they walk by, man or woman😼 i would only really be concerned if thirst traps of women was like, his whole fyp, cause that means he has a problem/addiction

Anonymous 10h

break up and give us the update

Anonymous 8h

Hahaha I used to pull up pictures of other girls on ig and show them to my ex and say "you would look good like this" just to make her jealous. I only did that cause I hated her though so not the asshole.

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Anonymous

OP 1d

People don’t even try to hide manipulation anymore😭😭

Anonymous

#1 23h

No actually like ask him wtf was genuinely going thru his head and what he thought that conversation would accomplish and then dump him for being stupid

Anonymous

#6 22h

Yall, it’s really not ok to immediately tell someone to break up their bf over a one sided description of an interaction. I don’t think you would want random people telling your partner that. That’s their decision to make.

Anonymous

#2 22h

Ok well I’m not going to get his side of the story am I? This is clear manipulation. I technically did say to ask him *genuinely* why he would even think of doing that and on the off chance that his reply isn’t something toxic and manipulative then OP can make the choice whether or not to stay w him. I personally wouldn’t stay just bc he asked it in the first place but that’s me and I’m also engaged not dating anymore

Anonymous

#9 10h

lusting over another woman AND disrespecting you….he gotta GO

Anonymous

#10 8h

the response was not it though to be fair:(

Anonymous

OP 3h

you should show him a guys thirst trap in a few days and just dickride the crap out of him, and when he gets upset tell him he’s being insecure

Anonymous

#11 3h

u could’ve broken up with her but u stayed just to disrespect her YTA

Anonymous

#9 3h

Yeah, fuck that whore.

Anonymous

#9 3h

You don't get to cheat on someone with 20 different people, emotionally and physically abuse them to the point of literally giving them scars, and then get all salty about a little disrespect and psychological abuse.

Anonymous

#11 3h

You could have said that in your original comment. You just said that you hated her lmao

Anonymous

#8 3h

Sorry, I should have said I justifiably hated her.

Anonymous

#11 3h

Also I want to clarify, I wasn't saying I'm not the asshole, I'm saying OP isn't. I definitely was being an asshole to my ex and it was on purpose.