AITA on Sidechat | Aita 4 bein mad @ my bf when his friends call me a foid, say I cheat & imply I’m a whore because I go out sometimes?He says he’s not responsible for their actions but they’re his frnds & he shouldnt tolerate that I feel, he tells them 2 stop but they dont

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Aita 4 bein mad @ my bf when his friends call me a foid, say I cheat & imply I’m a whore because I go out sometimes?He says he’s not responsible for their actions but they’re his frnds & he shouldnt tolerate that I feel, he tells them 2 stop but they dont

Anonymous 3w

common sense will tell u he’s the same as his friends

Anonymous 3w

Yta for dating him

Anonymous 3w

girl leave him tbh. he’s not responsible for their actions, but he IS responsible for how he responds to them. what does he say to them? how many times has he asked them to stop? after a certain point he needs to drop them and if he won’t then u can’t count on him. my bf wouldn’t stand for that shit and I wouldn’t either idc which one of us it’s directed at

Anonymous 3w

Does he defend u?

Anonymous 3w

NTA: tbh i’d break up with him because if he’s allowing them to say tht abt u what could he be telling them

Anonymous 3w

If you’re continuing to date him even tho he has shown he is repeatedly not respecting you-you’re at fault for not leaving. Hes shown you he’s not going to change. You’re expecting him to change when he’s showing you he won’t.

Anonymous 3w

*an foid

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Anonymous 3w

Seems like a lot of women in these comments so allow me to hopefully provide some insight. There are guys in the friend group who, when they get really mad about something, the group will continue to troll them. Unfortunately it is absolutely hilarious to rage bait certain people. Sounds like your boyfriend is getting rage baited. It doesn’t mean he’s a bad guy and you definitely shouldn’t leave him over it. If I had to guess, his friends have no real opinion on you. They just know how to get hi

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Anonymous

#1 3w

I know this part is bad but in every other regard he’s great! He buys me presents and flowers, plans nice dates, compliments me constantly and sincerely listens to me and tries to talk it out when we have an issue

Anonymous

OP 3w

And he doesn’t actually care about how you feel or have respect for you

Anonymous

#2 3w

Yes he gets super mad at them and has had serious talks W them but they don’t listen so I feel like they don’t respect me OR him

Anonymous

OP 3w

The way they talk is evidence of much deeper, toxic, mentalities regarding women and you specifically. Your Bf is going to have to grapple with that and realize he does not want to be part of that thought process. He will have to make a choice.

Anonymous

#7 3w

m going. In a way that’s kind of adorable. Ik it sounds like bullying but I’ve been rage baited a kajillion times and it’s just smth guys do sometimes. We f**k with each other. Not saying what they’re saying is okay, just trying to explain why they’re saying it and why your boyfriend can’t get them to stop.

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Anonymous

#7 3w

In summary, don’t leave bro. I’ve seen lots of guys join in on this sort of talk about their girls. Those are the sorts of pieces of sh*t that you need to stay away from. But it doesn’t sound like your bf is one of those guys.

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Anonymous

#7 3w

Sounds like his friends are a bunch of assholes he shouldn’t hang w

Anonymous

#7 3w

I’m a guy and I disagree

Anonymous

#1 3w

Yeah idk I’m a complete dumbass maybe I’m wrong

Anonymous

#7 3w

You could be right, if I had to guess I’d say their behavior is half just trying to ragebait my bf and half they fr don’t like me. They’re the types that don’t think women that go out aren’tthe relationship type. I’d also like to mention I’ve started going out probs 50% less since we started dating, I’ve never cheated or anything close to it so they’re basing their beliefs that I’m going to cheat solely on the fact that I have a couple male friends (whom I never hang out with alone) and go out

Anonymous

#7 3w

I agree there could be ragebaiting, but I do believe that they feel a certain way about Op and know it’s his weak spot. Even then it’s coming between the relationship and if he cared, he would put a stop to it or change his friends.