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AITA 1d
I knew this girl at a Christian summer camp. Was bi curious at the time so I asked if I could kiss her. She said yes and kissed me back; it didn’t last long at all. I asked her permission, she consented. And THEN I find out she went to a camp counselor
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Anonymous 1d

given that it was a christian summer camp she probably felt some sort of guilt afterwards and tried to convince herself it was against her will as a way to make herself feel better

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Anonymous 1d

saying she felt used and uncomfortable. Long story short I got in trouble for kissing at camp, and got sent home early, parents informed. And I felt so, so bad that I made this girl feel so uncomfortable but I was also like??? I asked you?? You said yes??? And then you made me look like I forced you? And I was just so confused and hurt and like AITA??

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Anonymous 1d

Not your fault she changed her mind about the kiss after the fact

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Anonymous 1d

People need to learn to say no if they aren’t interested, that’s not on you. They probably only sent you home because homophobia

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Anonymous 5h

You are far from being the a-hole. Saying this as a Christian. It was a consensual act. How she felt afterwards is her own issue.

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Anonymous 23h

bro like who cares ew

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Anonymous 1d

This is why people think the gay community is predatory

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Can I ask you what part of the story you found predatory?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Wait I sorta get what they mean. Because straight people make up these crazy lies about queer people when it’s just them feeling guilty about their own repressed sexuality

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

I’m pretty sure that’s exactly what they meant. Given the story and its context it would only make sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Yup

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