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Am i a asshole?🧍🏾‍♂️
#poll
10 upvotes, 10 comments. Sidechat poll by Anonymous in AITA. "Am i a asshole?🧍🏾‍♂️"
yes
indifferent
no
228 votes
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Anonymous 15h

As someone who was friends with a girl just like this, she isn’t going to block him because she needs the attention and needs to broadcast how “desirable” she is to all her other friends. You’re NAH but i highly recommend quietly distancing yourself starting, like, now

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Anonymous 12h

“I’m bored, should I text my ex” like really? Get a life or something holy

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Anonymous 13h

Cut them off. YNTA here. Those types are self centered and they just wanna make every thing about themselves. I done the same with cutting many ppl off for very similar reasons.

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Anonymous 15h

I accidentally voted yes cause I thought it meant yes cut her off😭

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Anonymous 13h

Cut her off

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Anonymous 13h

I agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

She is never going to really care about you, only care she has is men and what you think about her misadventures with them and using you for emotional labor to prop up her own mountain of insecurities

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 23m

that’s what i’m sayinggg😭 we’ve been on the phone a few times the past 2 weeks and she says that every other day, mind you we both graduated college last week, like there HAS to be something exciting to do other than bother a man who you talked trash about behind his back while y’all were dating, yet was upset when y’all broke up. (i still don’t understand that tbh)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20m

yeah i cut one friend off for that a few months ago and i might be doing it again, i sent her a short paragraph venting about my frustrations w/ the car/insurance stuff a few days ago and after she gave a response she said: “Soo i might be seeing him this friday😋”, i didn’t even acknowledge that part of her text bc i’m over talking about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17m

yeah that’s what i’m thinking, i feel like a bad friend even saying all of this stuff but i’m just so over it, like we just graduated college last week, we are grownnnnn and your over here geeking about 5+ different guys that your talking to, one of them being 30??? it just gives high school to me idk

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