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This dude wants to be casual for now after he took my virginity and has told me he likes me like 100 times and always asks for me to come over and hangout and calls me babe all the time. I want a relationship and he knows that. Idk what to do pls help
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Anonymous 5w

You have to love yourself more. It's sad. But you have to keep grilling him to say specifically what he wants. When a person shows you who they are. You need to believe them

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Anonymous 5w

First of all I apologize that you are going through this drama. But a guy stopped talking to me over him being a psychopathic asshole just this morning. I'm not saying this guy is. However the back and forth knowing you like him while he's "playing" with you isn't your fault. He has no clue how to clearly communicate what he really wants from you. He'd rather confuse you. You're not out here alone. You have to stop giving these guys the gf experience and he's not your man

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Anonymous 5w

Either leave and find a man who wants to be in a relationship with you or respect the fact that he only wants something casual. He’s showing you exactly who he is and what he wants. You’re hoping you can change his mind. That’s more than likely not going to happen. Especially if he can gain access to you and your body without having to commit.

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Anonymous 5w

unfortunately it's a lesson learned. they just want sex

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Anonymous 5w

He likes you as casual. There’s no reason for him to cuff himself to u cuz he alr got everything he wanted. I will warn u tho: if you give him an ultimatum, he will leave and not look back

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Anonymous 5w

*someone

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Anonymous 5w

You don’t need him lol he’s kinda sucky

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Thank you girl you’re right. No more gf experience til there’s a label on us

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

You're welcome. We try just cause we like the guy. There's no way I'll tolerate some ass hat ghosting me that long. My sitch came to ahead. All I had to do was wait. Meanwhile I'm sure he's telling everyone else I'm the psycho. He told me if I would've met you and touched you in any way. I wouldn't be able to get rid of you. After that I sent a laughing emoji replying with do you think your dick is so good no woman will leave you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Damn starting to think this is actually him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Oh naaaa head up queen he sounds like the psycho

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

😂 promise I’m not

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

LOL

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I'm so glad we got finally typing that so someone can actually read it. That's one of the reasons why I don't do fwb. If he already got the pussy why should he commit now?

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