Anonymous #2 4d

This is what i don't know, I called out yesterday and told my other manager what happened, but to me it sorta feels like ugh when's the funeral because we need people to work.

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Anonymous OP 4d

I'm also a manger but lower level, this is the text she sent me: "hey (my name) its (manager), do you know if you're gonna have a funeral to go to next week at all? (Other manager) and i are just trying to work on the schedule and i didnt want to add you anywhere where there could be a conflict"

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Anonymous OP 4d

That sounds like a pretty manager speak way of saying “hey, I don’t want to put you on the schedule on a day that conflicts with the funeral.” It seems respectful enough, though I can’t say for sure as I lack the requisite information.

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Anonymous #3 4d

It's a pretty close knit job, I've worked there for years and was kind of off put by my coworker for her to say that

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Anonymous OP 4d

Well that's already a problem. People knowing your business when it's none of their business. At work no one owes you anything

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Anonymous OP 4d

Agree with #2. It literally makes it sound like they’re trying to make sure to NOT schedule you so you can go to the funeral. I get her not mentioning any condolences when you want support could sting a bit. But that may have been from outside stress and not her being callous, especially if she’s trying to make sure you have the time you need.

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