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Ok so why is it that I’m so inlove with my boyfriend but I’m starting little fights over anything and trying to push him away? I’ve never been so happy in any other relationship like all the other guys I’ve been with treated me like shit but he doesn’t.
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Anonymous 2w

Also, TELL HIM!!!! He might think us him. If you gotta write it in a note to get it out, do that. He deserves to know that it isn’t him

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Anonymous 2w

all your other relationships got you used to existing in a state of conflict and tension, so you're unconsciously trying to recreate that environment now

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Anonymous 2w

This is why I don’t date

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

How do I fix it? Like he’s put up with it but I’m scared I’ll loose him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

get better at realizing when you're doing it and stopping yourself. maybe that's through therapy, maybe your self control is that good.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’ll try therapy because I have a counselor I can go to on my campus

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

best wishes. identify the behavior is the hardest step so you're doing good!

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