Ask Anything on Sidechat | I think that I witnessed the meanest thing ever! My friend recently got married everyone was invited to her parents’ house to stay for the occasion. On the wedding night the bride & groom left and stayed somewhere else before they went on the honeymoon….

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I think that I witnessed the meanest thing ever! My friend recently got married everyone was invited to her parents’ house to stay for the occasion. On the wedding night the bride & groom left and stayed somewhere else before they went on the honeymoon….

Anonymous 3w

I would say something to the newly married friend about it but I would very blunt and honest about the situation from your POV because you obviously don’t know anything else other than what you saw

Anonymous 3w

How long ago was this? You really should have said something then and there tbh idk you waited, especially seeing it affected her. Now what you’re going to have to do is awkwardly bring it up but like you didn’t realize it was a cruel act you can say something like hey, when were over at your parent’s place for your wedding I noticed there was a stash of bananas in your room. Is that a ritual or was it like a prank? Something along those lines.

Anonymous 3w

I forgot something in her bathroom and went in to grab it. Her Aunt and cousin had been staying in that room for the weekend and had taken all their stuff out and left that morning. They left a huge pile of rotten bananas on the nightstand. I went down the stairs as my friend came up the back staircase. I got to the bottom 💬 I am going to go throw that away this is mean.😢 when I got there she was there and the door was locked used the key thinking I locked it by accident- she was laying there…

Anonymous

OP 3w

Face down. I shut the door, quietly and left for home…. I don’t know whether to say something to her about it or not??

Anonymous

OP 3w

I don’t want her to think I did it but I also don’t want her to overthink i. Why would someone do this? Is this symbolic for something…or am I overthinking this?

Anonymous

#1 3w

If it helps write down or get your words and thoughts straight before you tell them, but try to wait till they are on their way back and let them know that you’re good intentions, so don’t tell them any speculations you may have. You can say things like “I saw something off putting and about [topic] and just wanted to let you know.”

Anonymous

#1 3w

It should be worded like a non overthinker because it’s just something that you observed and you want to make sure that you’re friend knows about it because you would want someone to do the same for you

Anonymous

#1 3w

If you have ways to reach out with their family members, you can tell the one that you are the most comfortable with while they are in the middle of their trip,because they might be able to know more about the aunt and cousin and will tell you if ur friend needs to know asap or if it can wait

Anonymous

#1 3w

If you don’t have direct connections to their family, tell a friend that does so they can help you, just keep it to what you saw when explaining it so you don’t accidentally say something that you’re overthinking about with the situation

Anonymous

#1 3w

I’m am overthinker and have had to do similar things you can dm me too if you need help planning what to say

Anonymous

#1 3w

Thank you!!

Anonymous

#2 3w

You are right , it was a month ago. I regret not saying something at the time. I think I will just leave it.