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I just want to be seen as attractive to an attractive guy but all of them are non chalant 😩 people who are non chalant suck. Does anyone else (or girl) have this experience?
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Anonymous 10w

Yepyepyepyep

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Anonymous 10w

ALL THE FUCKING TIME

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Anonymous 10w

I feel your pain 💔😭

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Anonymous 10w

what if the man is too chalant?? i am afraid i am too chalant sometimes

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Anonymous 10w

Girl he’s probably just shy. I’m also attractive and nonchalant (or so I’ve been told), and for me, it’s basically just a defense mechanism to better fit in socially and draw attention away from myself. Deep down I’m quite akward, shy, and prefer to keep to myself. There’s probably way more to him that’s under the surface. Just grow some balls and talk to him yourself. Hell, even call him handsome/hot if you want. Men are simple creatures, starved of affection and compliments. Just try girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Although, tbf I feel like they have their own ways of saying ur attractive to them and boost ur ego

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

How so?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Like they may not be ushy gushy ab u, “you’re so beautiful/cute” “I wanna cuddle/kiss” etc etc. it’s more like u have to check their actions and how often they’re picking to spend time w, what all they’re doing w u and what EFFORT they ARE ACTUALLY putting into u

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Is it bad I want both and I want to give both 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Nope! It’s bad when ur putting in the effort and ur not being satisfied

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

lol he doesn’t like me cause he talked about a different girl so I think I’m cooked lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Don’t cook your chances - talking about a girl doesn’t actualky mean he “likes” her, and vice versa for when girls talk about boys

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

Well he was saying how he wanted to be serious with her but she ended up having a bf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Pls don’t go for this man then😭 trust if you do, it’ll just come back to bite u in the ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Exactly 😭 I wish it wasn’t like this but whatever I’ll move on

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

There’s someone out there who won’t make u question enough to have to ask on yy bbg🫶

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