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HELP I just got asked out for the first time ever at a ripe 22 years of age (F)… like what do I do on a date 😭 I wanna find out his like politics too is that too ambitious date 1??? Genuinely need all the advice I can get!!
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Anonymous 8w

I’d say knowing his politics and religious standing is very important, but I would say that it’s more important to be able to understand his thoughts about policies than if he just says he’s liberal, republican, or in between

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Anonymous 7w

On my first date I just yapped about anything and everything (some of which happen to be slightly political topics, like the fact that I’m bi and what not) and kind of gauged what his beliefs were based on his reaction to what I was talking about. Obviously let him yap some too, and gauge his beliefs on what he talks about as well. Did this and now we’re going on a year!

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Anonymous 8w

I’m happy for you

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Anonymous 8w

That is a good thing to find out ASAP

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Anonymous 8w

Pro tip, if he likes every genre of music except for rap, he’s probably just racist. Not always, but there’s a pattern

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Anonymous 8w

Just go in there with an open mind. If it’s a good fit then you’ll naturally calm and go with the flow of the date

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

I 100% agree with this

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

Ooh okay! Everyone said stay away from like politics/social beliefs but I wanted to gauge that. Glad to hear you two are going on a year!

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