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How do I tell my family I’m seeing one/ dating someone? This might be not a big deal but growing up I was teased so much about it that I find tbh is topic very embarrassing and hard to bring up. I wish they wouldn’t tease me
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Anonymous 15h

I would wait until it’s more serious. Maybe a couple weeks or months depending on how many dates. Then you can bring it up confidently as a more stable relationship. Maybe they won’t tease as much and if they do you might feel more confident and their teasing will bounce off you more yk?

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Anonymous 16h

I had a similar experience growing up so now I just don't tell my family about that kind of thing at all lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

But like what if I marry this person? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

Like it feels disrespectful to not tell them but I’m trying to maintain my peace

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

In my opinion, your peace is more important, but that's just me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15h

But when it gets more serious- how?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

I genuinely never would lmao I'm sorry I can't offer any more specific help

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