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for those of you who enjoy college, what makes it so likable for you? i’m about to finish my sophomore year and i haven’t liked anything about my college experience.
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Anonymous 5w

Some advice, college is an experience YOU make it to be. Its not like high school when things are kinda just thrown at you, your actual going to have to make the effort to make your experience worthwhile. Join and invest yourself in clubs/organizations. Build good relationships with professors. Join study groups and follow event pages on socials then just go to them.

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Anonymous 5w

I have to pay for college, so in my mind, I’m not only paying for the material that I’m learning, I’m also paying for the connections that I’ll make. College itself is an experience, if you finish your classes and go back home or to your dorm and don’t do anything you won’t have a fun experience. However, if you make friends, instead of going back to your dorm or to your house, you can hangout with them instead.

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Anonymous 5w

My major is actually enjoyable. I finally swapped it, and I actually love my classes. I can’t say I have many friends yet but knowing that I’m doing something I love rather than sitting in classes I hate is nice

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Anonymous 5w

This is the only time in most people’s lives where we will live in a walkable community amongst thousands of people in our age range. I try and focus on the things that I will never get to experience again once I graduate.

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Anonymous 5w

life is all about learning, finding the joy in learning something new can bring joys into your life you never knew you could have. imagine the look on your friends faces when you surprise them with a fun fact they didnt know! imagine how many more people they would tell and would know that cool fact! hell, maybe its a fact that helps others, and by news spreading, it creates a chain of positive change in the world. keep learning, keep growing, its what we are born to do and endlessly do!

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Anonymous 5w

idk i guess it was always a dream. i came from a super broke household, dad worked factory my whole life, and mom had little jobs. im forever grateful to them, but i want to do better. i’m the first person in my family to go to college, and i made the deans list last semester with a 4.0 GPA. i’m proving to myself that im worth more, and can do better than i had.

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Anonymous 5w

I love that each class has a new girl you can talk too.

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Anonymous 5w

Coors light

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Anonymous 5w

i really enjoy the academic aspect. learning and watching things you love come together is really fun. i’ve had friends come and go, and meeting people with similar interests is wonderful

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Anonymous 5w

Some people go to college to have fun and meet people. Others go to study hard and get a degree. There can definitely be a middle ground, but sometimes lifes not a party for everyone. Its also alright to just go to college and get a degree without the added pressure of feeling like youre not having enough fun

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Anonymous 5w

Didn’t care for college but glad its over but find some ways to make the best outta it you’ll never meet more people your age in one place.

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Anonymous 5w

find a passion for a career

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Anonymous 5w

I enjoyed my major. The classes were fun and I learned a lot. I grew closer to my classmates (small program size) and professors. I had a small group of friends I went out and did fun stuff with like hiking, rock climbing, etc.

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Anonymous 5w

Not saying this is always the case, but transferring helped me truly love school again. I retired from D1 Running and suddenly moved just a semester ago to a new uni and I LOVE IT! To me, it just didn’t have jobs, social settings, or living that I “imagined” so I simply went somewhere that did :,)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I transferred sophomore year and at first I felt the same but I joined two organizations and found community in them. I actually found out about them by forcing myself to go to a random meeting and the ship sailed. I made a friend I can go to parties with and then made more connections at that party 😝

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I’m an introvert myself, however, going off the mindset that I’m paying thousands of dollars each yr and part of that is to make connections, I’ll try to make connections. This is easier than you think it is, I made a friend with an extroverted guy and he knows a lot of people. This lead to us hanging out and me meeting the people he knew and becoming friends with them. It’s not that hard, you just have to try a decent bit, and then after that, you’re all set.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

i really need to work on socializing more! i haven’t made any friends. but im pretty involved with my major, and i enjoy it a lot. i’ve joined two organizations for it, one for the first time this upcoming semester, so maybe i can make something of that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

i feel the same. i really enjoy my major but i just haven’t made friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

it’s very funny you commented this. i’m actually pretty extroverted, but for some reason, i’ve been struggling with making friends since i got here.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

that’s a good point. what sort of things do you focus on?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Personally I am very involved in music ensembles on campus, and it’s very hard to get involved with that after you graduate. I also really love getting discounted/free tickets to college football/basketball games, it gets significantly more difficult to attend the games once I graduate but I understand that’s not everyone’s thing. I just can’t stress how important it is to get involved with different groups and communities on campus. It’s cliche, but it’s true

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Ofc! I also thing the start of the semester is an amazing time to make friends because they'll always be new people to meet and haven't "cliqued up" yet

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