
Some advice, college is an experience YOU make it to be. Its not like high school when things are kinda just thrown at you, your actual going to have to make the effort to make your experience worthwhile. Join and invest yourself in clubs/organizations. Build good relationships with professors. Join study groups and follow event pages on socials then just go to them.
I have to pay for college, so in my mind, I’m not only paying for the material that I’m learning, I’m also paying for the connections that I’ll make. College itself is an experience, if you finish your classes and go back home or to your dorm and don’t do anything you won’t have a fun experience. However, if you make friends, instead of going back to your dorm or to your house, you can hangout with them instead.
life is all about learning, finding the joy in learning something new can bring joys into your life you never knew you could have. imagine the look on your friends faces when you surprise them with a fun fact they didnt know! imagine how many more people they would tell and would know that cool fact! hell, maybe its a fact that helps others, and by news spreading, it creates a chain of positive change in the world. keep learning, keep growing, its what we are born to do and endlessly do!
idk i guess it was always a dream. i came from a super broke household, dad worked factory my whole life, and mom had little jobs. im forever grateful to them, but i want to do better. i’m the first person in my family to go to college, and i made the deans list last semester with a 4.0 GPA. i’m proving to myself that im worth more, and can do better than i had.
Some people go to college to have fun and meet people. Others go to study hard and get a degree. There can definitely be a middle ground, but sometimes lifes not a party for everyone. Its also alright to just go to college and get a degree without the added pressure of feeling like youre not having enough fun
Not saying this is always the case, but transferring helped me truly love school again. I retired from D1 Running and suddenly moved just a semester ago to a new uni and I LOVE IT! To me, it just didn’t have jobs, social settings, or living that I “imagined” so I simply went somewhere that did :,)
I transferred sophomore year and at first I felt the same but I joined two organizations and found community in them. I actually found out about them by forcing myself to go to a random meeting and the ship sailed. I made a friend I can go to parties with and then made more connections at that party 😝
I’m an introvert myself, however, going off the mindset that I’m paying thousands of dollars each yr and part of that is to make connections, I’ll try to make connections. This is easier than you think it is, I made a friend with an extroverted guy and he knows a lot of people. This lead to us hanging out and me meeting the people he knew and becoming friends with them. It’s not that hard, you just have to try a decent bit, and then after that, you’re all set.
Personally I am very involved in music ensembles on campus, and it’s very hard to get involved with that after you graduate. I also really love getting discounted/free tickets to college football/basketball games, it gets significantly more difficult to attend the games once I graduate but I understand that’s not everyone’s thing. I just can’t stress how important it is to get involved with different groups and communities on campus. It’s cliche, but it’s true